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What to wear to a bachelorette party, in four lines
Quick tips for guests.
- Check the dress code
- FirstColors, a theme or a destination look, from the invitation or the group chat
- Leave white
- To the brideWear the theme color or a bold shade, not white, unless the bride asks
- Shoes
- ComfortablePack flats or boots you can stand and dance in, and heels in the bag if you want them
- Pack
- About four outfitsArrival, the day, the night out and travel home, for two nights
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Bachelorette party outfit ideas for guests
Stylish looks that work for most bachelorette parties.
A mini dress
Black, red or sequin minis with boots or block heels, the classic going-out look.
A satin slip dress
Midi or mini slip dresses with a denim jacket for dinner and bars.
A jumpsuit or romper
Easy to dance in, and a good choice for a casual evening.
Jeans and a going-out top
A corset, sequin or satin top with jeans and boots, for a relaxed but stylish look.
A matching set
A skirt and top set in the theme color.
A sundress
Floral or bright sundresses with sandals for brunch or a daytime activity.
Matching satin robes
For getting ready photos with the bride before going out.
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What should the bride wear to her bachelorette party?
Help her stand out in the photos.
A white dress
A white mini, sequins or a two-piece set for the big celebration. See white bachelorette dress.
A bride accessory
A veil, a sash, a bride hat or a statement bag.
Outfits for each day
A swimsuit for the pool, a sundress for brunch, and something special for going out.
Plus size options
White sets, wrap dresses and jumpsuits in sizes that fit and feel good.
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Skirts, pants and accessories
Chic pieces beyond dresses.
Leather or satin skirts
A mini or midi skirt with a bodysuit or a cute top.
Wide-leg or leather pants
Paired with a corset or sequin top for a going-out vibe.
A statement piece
One bold jacket, bag or pair of earrings that makes a simple outfit feel special.
Accessories
Sunglasses, hair clips, a crossbody bag and jewelry in the theme color.
Themed accessories
A cowgirl hat, disco earrings or a pink bow, when the full outfit is not your style.
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Outfits for bridesmaids and the bridal party
Coordinated looks without buying a uniform.
The same color, different styles
Each bridesmaid picks dresses, skirts or pants in one color.
A matching accessory
The same sunglasses, hats or robes for photos.
The maid of honor
A slightly different shade or detail to stand out next to the bride.
Wedding weekend overlap
Pieces that also work at the bridal shower or the rehearsal dinner.
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What to wear by theme
Outfit ideas for bachelorette party themes.
Disco
Sequins, metallic fabrics and silver boots.
Last rodeo
Denim, fringe and cowboy boots. See Nashville bachelorette outfits.
Last splash
A bright swimsuit and a cover-up for the pool or beach.
Pink or Barbie
Any pink dress, top or accessory.
Black and white
Guests in black, and the bride in ivory or cream.
Y2K or 2000s
Low-rise jeans, a baby tee and butterfly clips.
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What to wear by destination and weather
Match the outfits to the city and the season.
Beach destination
Swimsuits, cover-ups, sandals and a flowy dress for dinner.
City weekend
Going-out dresses, skirts or jeans and a top, with shoes you can walk in.
Desert or mountains
Light layers for hot days and a jacket for cooler evenings.
Hot weather
Breathable fabrics such as linen and cotton, and a hat for daytime.
Cold weather
Tights, knee-high boots, a warm coat and knit dresses or pants.
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Styling tips, dos and don'ts
Simple rules for guests.
Do follow the dress code
Even one item in the theme color counts.
Do bring a layer
Evenings get cooler, especially outdoors.
Do add accessories
Statement earrings, a crossbody bag and sunglasses finish an outfit.
Avoid white
Unless the bride asks the whole group to.
Avoid brand new shoes
Break them in before the trip.
Don't overpack
Plan outfits you can mix and match, and wear the bulkiest shoes on the plane.
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What to pack, outfit by outfit
For a two night trip. Add an item only if an activity needs it.
Arrival
Comfortable, layered clothes you can travel in.
The day
A swimsuit and cover-up for a pool weekend, walkable clothes for a city, layers for a cool beach morning.
Going out
The outfit that meets the dress code, with comfortable shoes.
Travel home
One more casual outfit for brunch and the airport.
One layer
A jacket or something with sleeves for the evening.
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Bachelorette party dress codes that are easy to follow, and ones that are not
Advice for whoever writes the dress code.
People follow these
- Two colors, one itemWear red, plus something sparkly. Clear in a photo, and easy to meet from a closet.
- One color for the big nightA simple dress code that asks nobody to shop.
- White for the bride, color for everyone elseThe classic look for a group photo.
- A material rather than a lookDenim, sequins or linen, which most wardrobes can cover.
- Optional extrasWear a hat if you have one, named as optional so nobody has to buy one.
People do not follow these
- A specific decade or characterHarder to put together from a closet, so guests have to shop.
- Custom shirts nobody agreed to pay forFun, but announce the cost with the per head budget. See bachelorette party shirts.
- A mood board with no sentenceTurn it into one line in the group chat: the colors, the item and the night.
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Choosing what to wear to a bachelorette party
Comfort, style, age and budget.
What to wear to a bachelorette party depends on the dress code, the destination and the plans. Start with the theme or colors the maid of honor shares, choose an outfit you feel great in, and pick shoes you can wear all night.
Dress for every age
A bachelorette party can include friends and family of every age. A midi dress, a jumpsuit or tailored trousers with a bold top can meet the dress code while feeling comfortable and stylish.
Keep the budget in mind
Build outfits from what you already own, borrow or rent a piece for the big night, and ask before buying anything custom. For the whole group's looks by occasion, see bachelorette party outfits.
Follow the dress code, leave white to the bride, and wear shoes you can dance in.
The outfit ruleGuests
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What to wear to a bachelorette party, answered
Questions guests ask before packing.
What should a guest wear to a bachelorette party?
A mini or slip dress, a jumpsuit, or jeans with a going-out top, in the dress code colors.
Add comfortable shoes and a layer.
Can guests wear white to a bachelorette party?
Leave white to the bride unless she asks the group to wear it.
Ask the maid of honor if unsure.
What should the bride wear to her bachelorette party?
A white dress or set, with a veil, sash or bride hat.
Plan a white look for each day.
What shoes should I wear to a bachelorette party?
Boots, block heels, flats or sneakers you can walk and dance in.
Break in new shoes first.
What should I wear to a beach bachelorette party?
Swimsuits, cover-ups, sandals and a flowy dress for dinner.
Bring a hat and sunscreen.
How many outfits should I pack for a bachelorette weekend?
About four for two nights: arrival, the day, the night out and travel home.
Mix and match pieces.
What should I not wear to a bachelorette party?
White, brand new shoes, or anything that ignores the dress code.
When in doubt, wear black.
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What to read next
Where the dress code comes from, what the weekend costs before clothes, and the theme that sets the colors.
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Where this bachelorette outfit advice comes from
Editorial style advice.
What this page is
The outfit ideas, packing list and dress code advice are Revelwick's editorial suggestions. No brand or retailer is named or paid to appear.